Dear all,
Sorry for the sudden lack of updates! It’s been a terribly busy and tiring few weeks, plus the internet connection hasn’t been connecting for 3 days already :(
Christmas is coming! That’s good and bad news, all at once. Haha. The good news is that we’re all gonna celebrate Christmas and New Year! The bad news is that because we have to celebrate Christmas and New Year, we’re all busy with Christmas and New Year preparations. And while the good news is that while our lecturers have given us time off study to do these (somewhat last minute) preparations, the bad news is that my project is due on the 2nd of January! That means getting tired because of preparations and struggling to push out little bits of work at night – a terrible combination :( Trying to cope, but not sure how well it’s really going sigh.
But on to happy moments (because the bad ones aren’t worth taking note of), I’m in the dance team for Christmas! Hahahaha.. imagine that man! So far (and the performance is on Monday, just 2 days away!) I look like a jerky chicken dancing! *faint* But Jiaqi’s been wonderful (she choreographed the whole thing in 3 days!) and the dance team’s excellent! I’ve had absolutely no regrets joining the team – through dance I’ve made new friends and have had lots of fun! :) Jiaqi, Grace (yes, Grace is dancing too!), Keong, Cassandra, Jia Wei, May, Adrian and Nicky, if you get to see this, I just want to say that it’s been a lovely week dancing with you guys (although now I can’t stop thinking of the dance moves the second I hear Let’s Get Loud!), and I’m really happy to get to know you guys much much much better :) The following’s dedicated to you, each and every one of you, who have made my past week so enjoyable (albeit exhausted :P)
Jia Qi – Thank you for your passion to dance, for your effort in choreographing the dance steps even though you’re sick and tired. You’ve skipped meals, lost weight and lost sleep this entire week, and yet you’re still going strong. Thank you, for the empathy you’ve shown when things got shitty, for your concern and care and smiles when we were tired, for your encouragement when we felt we looked like shit, for your determination when it seemed like time was just running out. Thank you, for being you!
Grace – Thank you, dear Grace, for being someone so sporting to join us in our dance! Despite your amazingly busy schedule, you’ve never failed to try you very best to meet us to dance, to practice the dance steps on your own, to put in your best effort whenever you dance! Thank you, for being a fantastic friend who cares – someone who wants the best for her friends. Your determination to succeed and give of your very best has inspired me greatly, and getting to know you has been one of the best things that have happened on this trip :)
Keong – It’s been great getting to know you! Over the past week, I realized that I’ve found someone whom I can rely on when it means not sleeping on the bus while going home late, someone whom I can talk to with ease and who can make me smile and laugh, someone who is thoughtful and tactful enough to gently chase me to sleep when I’m exhausted. Thanks for the concern you’ve shown while I was sick, and for the funny expressions that crack all of us up when we’re all tired at dance. It was fun exchanging stories! You still owe me your jacket! Remember hor! Haha.. Thank you! This past week’s been great because I’ve found a new friend in you!
Cassandra – Sweet, bubbly Casssandra! Thank you for being a wonderful friend! Although I have yet to know lots lots lots more about you, I’d just like to thank you for being a great ‘dance partner’ (well, you dance beside me haha)! Seeing you try your best even though it gets more and more tiring each time has given me the drive to give every practice dance my best shot as well :) It’s always fun to see you smile (even though sometimes the smile is a very tired one) and then give you a hi-5 in the beginning of each performance! Despite being exhausted by the dance, you’ve never once lost your temper aloud and have kept a tight rein over your anger. Thank you, for never once giving up!
Jia Wei – The joker in our team and the most enthusiastic dancer with the most stamina! (I swear, it’s due to too much anime watching) Thank you, Jia Wei, for continuously livening up our practices with your crazy moves, “look at me look at me I’m going to dance!” and “siam ah siam ah! Get out of my way!” Dance life would be drastically depressing without you around! Your stamina is amazing – each time the darn song replays you always have the energy to give it another go! (Of course, this also means that we end up having to follow, which means non-stop dancing until someone runs to switch off the music!) Thank you, for your never-ending stream of enthusiasm, for your boundless energy and for your amazing ability to brighten up the exhausted atmosphere around you! Dance would have been oh-so-dull without you around!
May – A patient teacher who is ever ready to learn and teach! Thank you May, for helping each of us to slowly get the ‘hand wave’, and for patiently teaching the ‘stand ins’ how to dance! You’re a thoughtful friend who always thinks for those close to you, constantly buying breakfast (and getting me to carry it! Haha) and looking out for them. Your ability to constantly practice to perfect your steps is amazing! All the best in luck and love *ahem*! Haha..
Adrian – Sigh, you ah, always trying to say something witty but always shooting yourself in the butt in the end… haha.. Kay, let’s put the constant wisecracks behind for now :P Thank you Adrian, for being a wonderful person whom I hope I’ll be able to call a friend. Your ability to tolerate my comebacks at you (well, considering you don’t have a choice since you aren’t exactly able to defend yourself anyway haha) is amazing! It’s always fun talking to you, and it’s been good getting to know you :) Thanks for the kuehs and tidbits, and for your willingness to share! :)
Nicky – Yo man! Haha.. Thanks for being a wonderfully enthusiastic dance partner, who doesn’t mind the constant stream of static I seem to give off every other second! Seeing you dance for the first time was super funny, and your constant effort to get the steps right is really really admirable :) Thank you, for always giving your best, for showing concern and for the coughdrops whenever my throat cannot-make-it anymore! Haha.. You and Jia Wei have to stop dancing whenever you hear the song intro man – we’ll go
mad if we keep dancing non-stop! Haha..
Jo! Our perfectionist picky dance assistant whose constant grumbles of our coordination (or lack thereof) has helped to push us to far greater heights! Thank you, for all the time you’ve spent watching us practice, for accompanying us and helping Jiaqi with the choreographing! Keep smiling! We’ll try our best to dance in time! :P
And that was the supercalifragilisticexpialidocious Christmas dance team! Thank you guys, for tolerating my nonsense and for giving your best! You guys rock! :)
Today, I made a trip down to Grace’s place to 过冬至! In Beijing, they don’t have 汤圆 during 冬至, they have 饺子! But first, Grace and I made a trip to a delumptuous (delicious and sumptuous) 点心 store very near her place for breakfast! Finally – good Beijing 点心!I love the 芝麻 paste for the 面茶! The 豆腐脑 is very much like our tau huay, except that it’s salty! (the soup is made of some mushroom broth), while the 香椿green been thing (ha! Grace is here so I’ve got the names :P) was melt-in-your-mouth delicious – so much better than the store bought things!
After that, we made a trip to 大观园, where 红楼梦 was being filmed! Grace cycled, and I ‘pillion-ed’ the bike! It was fun, but I think poor dear Grace was exhausted! It was lovely riding behind – never thought that I could feel so safe and stable :) Because Grace’s aunt can get us in free, this place is Grace’s childhood spot :) It’s a beautiful place, with wonderful scenery! It took 2 years to build, and was completed in 1987! Walking through the garden made me want to watch 红楼梦. How I wish I could stay here till spring and summer, when the flowers bloom and the scent of the flowers fills the air!
We made a trip to one a local Capital Medical University after that, where all the students there study to become doctors or nurses! Although it was small compared to other universities (I went to Tsing Hua University yesterday – it was HUGE!!!), when you consider that it’s a university solely meant to churn out medical students, then the impact of “I’m in Beijing” really hits you!
We went to Grace’s house after that! :) While her place is considered small compared to most houses in Singapore, it felt super warm and cosy! Her parents invited me into their house with wide open arms and spent an entire day entertaining me :) While Grace and I flipped through a mountain of photographs, Grace’s parents fed us with warm drinks. At lunchtime, Grace’s mum and dad taught me how to make 饺子! With experienced hands, both parents kneaded, divided and spread out the dough, then proceeded to deftly fold the ingredients into a perfectly shaped dumpling. It took me ages to complete each one! Heh, but they were really really patient! The dumplings were fried in a pan, and because it wasn’t steamed, it was called 锅贴 rather than 饺子. Freshly fried 锅贴 gives off the most wonderful aroma! Later, for dinner, Grace’s dad also taught me how to make 包子, using the exact same ingredients – just a different method of mixing and cooking! I also learnt how to make the flower 包子 that I’d been enjoying these past few weeks, courtesy of Grace’s father! I hereby dub Grace’s father a wonderful chef, and my cooking 师父! Haha.. Tasting the fruits of our labour made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside, and I couldn’t help but feel a pang of regret that I’d have to leave Beijing all too soon.
The journey back to school was a long one – Grace and her father took the pains to accompany me all the way to the Beijing train station – 30 minutes away from their home! Before I left, Grace’s mum insisted on patching my torn jeans (It ripped at the knee when I was playing basketball) and giving me more clothes to wear. Her parents packed 2 huge bags of food (bao and dumplings) for the rest of the students to enjoy, while bidding me to keep warm and drink more water in order to recover from my flu. It was really touching to be so warmly received by her parents, and their hospitality made me feel a glow of warmth spread inside :)
Thank you, dear Grace, for being such a wonderful friend, for always giving so much and for constantly thinking ahead for others. Beijing would mean so much less without you around. I’ll miss you terribly when I have to return. I hope you’ll be able to come to Singapore soon, so that I too, can return the love you’ve shown to me and all of us. Thank you, aunty and uncle, for being so so welcoming, for giving so much without ever expecting anything in kind. Thank you, for making Beijing a warm and welcoming place to be in, for the concern and all the consideration you’ve shown. :)
It’s been a really really good day.
(the above was written about 3 days ago, when the internet was (still) down)
Pictures up for grabs!!

Breakfast - courtesy of Grace!! To the left is 香椿, followed by 面茶, then 豆腐脑! :D

Homegrown pumpkin, part of which ended up being my dinner porridge! :P

My 饺子 lunch, 锅贴!Piping hot from the pan! mmmmm!

Bao!!! Freshly bao-ed and waiting to be steamed!!
The master chef, Grace's father! haha..
Who says working can't be fun? haha.. we drew this on the dough using 芝麻paste before spreading it evenly and properly :)
The Master Chef at work! :P

Happy happy family! :) Thank you, 叔叔 和 阿姨 for being so very hospitable!!! :)